It seems with the rate I’m being tagged recently in certain personal blog discussions that I need to re-post my primer on How Can An Asexual Person Be Kinky?
*clears throat*
A PERSONS ABILITY TO EXPERIENCE SEXUAL ATTRACTION DOES NOT DETERMINE THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARDS SEX
AND
BDSM IS NOT ALWAYS SEXUAL.
I know this is very shocking for some of you, I do have an emergency inhaler and a prepared snuggly animal, but perhaps if you would just sit and consider it for a second you would realise that neither of those statements are contradictory nor should they be controversial.
Thank you for your time, have a pleasant day.
There are already people reblogging this with variations of “da fuck is nonsexual BDSM?????” and since I am in no way, shape, or form about to reblog every single one of those posts and explain, I’ll put the explanation here and people can peruse at their leisure (all links can also be found under my Important Links tab). It should also be noted that these were written at a time when I was a lot more patient so there is astronomically less sass.
How Do People Experience Play: Body Edition
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